‘Sure’ Ways To Get Your Crush To Come After You

You feel butterflies when you are around them and they make you feel excited about everything. The problem with people sometimes is declaring their undying love for a man/woman instead of just taking thing slow.

However there are certain guaranteed ways to get your crush to chase you but you must be sure that there is a flame between the two of you and not a made up chemistry. Try these things and see how fast things will go.

1. Don’t call or text first.

You can call once in a while. But if you truly want to know if your crush even considers you, then you ought to give him/her some time out and let them be the ones to look for you.

When you keep calling and texting them you look idle and desperate. If they don’t look for you then you will also know that they probably don’t like you.

2. Flirt with your crush.

How else will they know that you actually like them? Flirt with them, tell him/her that they look good once in a while.

Have meaningful conversations but make sure they are not too sexual otherwise they become disgusting and offensive.

3. Stop being clingy.

Don’t hold on to someone as if they are never going anywhere. They are not a need and should not be treated like one. Stop asking when you will meet all the time or asking about their whereabouts every time you get a chance.

Remember this is a crush not a boyfriend or girlfriend.

4. Keep your texts short and not too wordy.

Wordy texts can be boring at times, keep it short and sweet so you can also inspire phone calls which gives you an opportunity to share more.

5. Don’t let him or her think they are the only option.

My friend if you are not in a relationship feel free to go on dates with other people. Don’t lie to your crush that they are the only ones because competition is healthy and he/she does not need to be in a comfortable spot.

6. Never forget your friends.

Hang out with them and stop using all your energy on your crush, when you hang out with friends they can be an instrument to achieve your dream, their advice and their reactions whenever your crush is around is a big deal that can interpret you feelings into your Crushs head.

7. Don’t act like you’re in a relationship when you are not.

Stop doing things that you would normally do in a relationship. Stop offering things like sex for someone you would want to be more than just a friend. Why should someone buy a cow if they can get the milk for free?

8. Let things flow and don’t force it to flow.

Let things flow and never try to force it or insinuate things like “when will we start dating?” after just a month. At the same time never let someone take you for a ride for too long, if you feel they are wasting your time then just leave.

9. Always look cute in front of your crush.

How else will they remember you apart from your personality. The way you look should speak for you, look good for him or her and let the power of seeing help you out.