While the guy and the lady ought to take responsibility for the success of their relationship, this article seeks to focus on guys and how they ruin a good relationship without even knowing it.
Below are 6 behaviours guys have that destroy their relationship
1. YOU DON’T GET CLOSE ENOUGH
Not getting close enough to your partner might destroy your relationship because a lady longs to connect with her man. Being affectionate only when you need sex or something from her is so wrong and destroys your relationship before you know it. Make your girlfriend feel close to you by talking with her, hugging her often, holding her hands, kissing her unexpectedly, sitting close to her, asking her how she’s doing and spending time alone with her. Doing this would help her feel connected to you and when she feels connected to you, she would be more willing to engage with you on a more intimate, sexual level.
2. YOU DON’T SAY YOU’RE SORRY
Conflicts are part of every relationship and not apologising quickly after a conflict is a very fast way of destroying your relationship with her. The problem most guys have is that they see apologising as a sign of weakness and this is so wrong. I instead see it as a sign of strength. When you apologise, you let her know that you are open and willing to make things work. Apologising also shows that you care enough to admit your faults and move past it.
3. YOU NEGLECT THE SMALL THINGS
I find that most guys think getting a lady fancy jewellery and taking her to expensive restaurants is all that matters. These gestures are nice but it isn’t always necessary. Neglecting the small things can cost you your relationship because she feels loved and appreciated by the small tokens of your love and appreciation. Don’t neglect the small things like calling or texting her during the day to let her know you are thinking of her, cooking her dinner etc.