Sexting might seem easy until you get blocked or reported as spam for sending dirty texts and nudes.
If this has happened to you or you just want to try something new then you should really know the sexting do’s and don’ts.
Here is what you need to know before you send that dirty text or nudes:
1. Picture it first before typing it out
When it comes to sexting, you don’t want it to seem forced or like you are trying too hard. So, start by knowing exactly what you want to say and what you are trying to achieve before you even send that text.
Figure out what part of the body you want to do stuff to, what you want to do and string the words together in your head before you actually start typing.
Don’t worry, sexting gets easier the more intimate you get with the person(s) and more you do it.
Learn the art of getting sex before having it
2. Be yourself
Say things you would say in real life. Don’t try to force things, act natural, exactly like you would if you were talking face-to-face.
3. Start small
As a learner, don’t complicate things. Say exactly what you are thinking or feeling. If you feel like kissing them, then say that. If you have been daydreaming about them, say that. Don’t try to overdo it until you get the hang of it.
4. Save some for later
Sexting should be considered as an appetizer, the thing you do before the main course. So don’t tell the person every single thing you want to do.
Instead, tease and tempt them by giving them just enough to make them hungry until the main event.
5. Do NOT show your face
This is the number one rule when it comes to sending nudes. Never send a sexy pic with your face especially in this internet age.
No face in your nudes
Tease them by sending parts of your body, WITHOUT YOUR FACE. The whole part is to tempt them, remind them of what they are missing, not to satisfy their craving.