Dating a girl who has experienced first love, breakup pains among others can be an advantage. Here are some of the reasons why you should date such girls with complicated past:
1. She knows what she wants
There is a good chance that she has been burned in past relationships. Maybe she was the heartbroken, or the heartbreaker herself. The point is with every relationship we find ourselves in, we learn more things about ourselves.
2. She knows pain
She has been there before, she knows how it can hurt like hell. And she will be hellbent to not cause anyone else the kind of pain that she has been through. She will be gentle with your heart, because she knows what it feels like to have your heart well being completely disregarded.
3. She is not going to waste your time
Her past relationships may have left her resentful for the time and efforts she so tirelessly wasted away. If she sees that a relationship isn’t right she will not let it drag on for the sake of saving your feelings. She knows that hanging on too long can be even more painful than letting go in itself.
4. She loves hard
When she finds a man that appreciates her, she will love him with every ounce of her being. She knows what it feels like to be with someone who does not appreciate her. So when she comes across a man that does she will not let him go. She will appreciate him even more because she has spent time with the wrong men. She can recognize a good thing when she has it, because she has been part of some not so good things.
5. She is strong
When something has been broken, it rebuilds stronger. This is what has happened with the complicated girl. She has been forced to rebuild herself possibly time and time again. Each time becoming a little bit stronger. She is not invincible, but she is close. She is well aware of her strength and she knows that she doesn’t need you.