According to the lady, she turned the jobs to do something life changing for the guy but got told he owes her nothing when things went sour.
The Nigerian lady was reacting to a tweet which reads;
See ladies, put yourselves first bc men are selfish and they won’t feel bad for you bc you held yourself back for them
Read her response below;
I put my career on hold to do something life changing for a guy I dated. Turned down two job offers because they conflicted with his personal plans. Then when things got sour, he said to me and I quote “I owe you nothing” And he was right. I just had to learn it the hard way.