Nigerian rapper Eva Alordiah has taken to Twitter to lambaste people who are fond of asking for women’s virginity status.
The ‘Deaf’ crooner condemned those using a woman’s virginity status as a yardstick to measure how good a woman is.
Eva further disclosed she’s not a virgin, and was introduced to ‘vulnerable sexuality’ when she was only six years old.
The 32-year-old also damned the society for judging victims of abuses, which daunt people from opening up about their sexual abuse.
Read her vapor below.
“I am not your role model, I am not your guru. I am an exponentially flawed human just trying to figure out this human sh#t. I’m a Born Sinner, not your idea of Holy and I’ll never fit your model of perfect. So please, don’t look up to me. Look in the Mirror.”
“Hmmm… So yesterday someone asked me in QnA in my stories if I was a Virgin. I understand this question considering the type of society I grew up in. It is a sort of yardstick to measure how “good” of a woman you are. Well, Your yardstick of “good” can eat sh#t in my ass hun.”
“Every time I put up a QnA , there is always that one cow who asks this question: “Are you a Virgin?” No. And you must be very stupid to go around asking women you don’t know questions like this. I may be wrong but I don’t think I have ever seen this question directed at men.”
“Usually when the concept of being a Virgin is brought up, it’s the “Woman” who is expected to be a Virgin. Thankfully, Life taught me different and my unique experience ensured that against my will, I was introduced to my own vulnerable sexuality at age 6.”
“And I am not isolated in this. So many men and women today carry heavy Sexual Trauma in adulthood because their innocence was ripped off their hands before they knew what it was. An aunty would not stop touching down there.. A so called ‘uncle’ would not stop poking in there.”
“Many kids cover up the scars of the sexual abuse within, have no one to talk to and then have to face a society that expects you to be perfect, untouched, holy, because otherwise you are going to hell — the one they have subconsciously created that has fire and coal.”
“What about the hell you are living in right now? What about the hell in your mind? You are afraid of the hell you think awaits you when you transcend this plane, yet you die in the hell that taunts you daily.”
“I’m not Holy and I don’t intend to be— how can I, a mere flawed human achieve such status? I do my best. And making mistakes, f#cking it up over and over again, making even more mistakes and f#cking it up some more is what being Human living in this human experience is about.”
“So f#ck you and your measurement for good whatever they might be. You go look in the mirror and direct that energy to the person you see. Be your own role model. Do you like what you see? If no, change you. ”
“To all the Virgins, please do you! You f#cking rock! Don’t let nobody pressure you into having sex. You have a lifetime ahead of you to f#ck and be f#cked. You sef go f#ck f#ck f#ck you go taya. Keep yourself to yourself. Every thing in this life is vanity. Just Boosh#t.”