Former Big Brother Naija fake ‘housemate’ cum Nollywood actress, Eriata Ese has taken to her social media to berate Nigerian-British boxer, Anthony Joshua over his recent post about giving or generosity.
Anthony Joshua in a post he made on his Snapchat intimated that giving out too much material gifts to people with the aim of garnering their love only yields false love most of the time.
He said that people tend to fall in love with the hand that gives them too much material gifts and not the heart that accompanies the kind gesture. In his words:
“IF YOU GIVE A PERSON 2 MUCH MATERIAL GIFTS SOON THEY FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR HAND, NOT YOUR HEART.”
In reaction to that, Eriata Ese stated that the boxer’s submissions were based on stinginess on the account that one should be able to give out all they can, the moment they realize that the love shown to them is real.
She said that she is disappointed in the boxer for giving such an advise and also trying to change people’s mindset even though he has it within his rights to express his opinion.
Eriata Ese added that Anthony can remain stingy but needs not to dictate for other people.
She further said that real people who show genuine love are the only ones who understand the act of taking, giving and sharing with loved ones.
Eriata wrote:
“Giving and sharing is part of love; give as much as u can. The moment you realize it’s real love. This is a very terrible advise and I disappointed. Stop spoiling people’s mindset. it’s okay to give your opinion.
You don’t tell people how to express their love, be stingy if you want; don’t try change other people’s mindset. That’s a narcissist behavior.”
“Run away from people who think u don’t deserve all the good things of life. Because how can someone claim to love u and not give u the world even doe he or she cannot afford it.
If I’m rich rich I’ll gift the man I love amazing stuffs on a daily just to see that excitement, do u not feel the joy knowing you are the reason for someone’s happiness.
Which is why it’s important to date and marry someone on ur level.
They are the only ones that will understand the value of taking, giving and sharing
if u go date who Dey hungry, anything way u see inside take am like that.”