Big Brother Naija ‘Lockdown’ star, Tolani Shobajo better known as Tolani Baj, has said she can’t be in a romantic relationship with a man who splits bills with his partner.
According to her, a man is supposed to provide all the household’s needs, including that of his partner.
TolaniBaj who revealed that she is single stated that her preferential man has to be a provider.
Stating that she is doing well on her on, TolaniBaj said a man should be a plus who will make her life easier.
She stated this in a video message she shared on social media recently. In her words:
“Let me just throw this out there. One thing I know that I want in a man… FYI: I’m single. If you are trying to move to me because I’ve a lot of admirers here who send me nice messages, some I respond to, some I don’t. Know that I’m only interested in a man that is a provider.
I’m not interested in doing 50/50. I’m doing very well by myself. So, if a man is going to come into my life, you need to add butter to my bread like, my life needs to be even softer. So, if you know that you are not a provider and you are not generous, I’m not interested. And I’m telling you this from my chest. There’s no shame in having standards and knowing what I want.”
Watch her speak:
Recall in March, TolaniBaj revealed why she quietly bought herself a new house and chose not to flaunt it on social media like her colleagues.
TolaniBaj revealed this during a question-and-answer session when fans asked her why she refused to announce the good news.
A fan on Snapchat requested that she does a vlog or YouTube video showcasing the house, but she explained that she did not want it in public domain.
Tolanibaj said that with maturity comes a different way of viewing things in life hence why she feels the need to protect her blessings.
The Disc Jockey said she is comfortable with making a few posts from time to time instead of the usual daily updates about her life.
A fan wrote; I know you don’t want to show off but please BAJ Do a blog of your new house.
Another said; House tourrr? miss you your YouTube guys
In reaction, Tolanibaj wrote; “I’ll see but as I get older, I learn to protect my blessings. Subtle posts here and there is good enough ere and there is good.”