- BBNaija’s Doyin has stated that she cannot be a stay-at-home mum for three valid reasons.
- The reality TV star stated that her husband could turn out to be irresponsible after marriage or die untimely.
- Doyin stated that asides these two reasons, there’s a kind of respect that comes with being independent and having one’s money.
Big Brother Naija ‘All Stars’ ex-contestant, Doyinsola David, better known as Doyin, has said can never be a full-time housewife if she gets married.
The reality TV star explained that the reasons she can’t quit her job to focus on being a stay-at-home wife is because her spouse can change and stop catering for her and their kids.
Doyin stated this in a video shared through her Instastory, noting that men respect a financially independent wife more than an ordinary housewife.
She also wondered what will happen to the family if her husband as the sole provider of the home unexpectedly passes away.
The 26-year-old emphasized that it is necessary for her to be working as well as her hubby because she takes sustainability very seriously. Doyin said;
“I will never be a full-time housewife. Number one, people change. What if he [my future husband] changes? What if he meets another girl and then he stops catering for me and my kids?
“Number two, there’s this level of respect that comes with having your own money like when your partner knows you can provide. You don’t need to ask them for everything. You can handle certain things in the house. And I would really like to have that respect in my marriage.
“And third, there are certain things that are out of our control. What if he dies? God forbid. We don’t pray for that but what if he dies? How am I going to sustain myself and my kids? So, sustainability is a very big thing for me. At least, I would have a business.”