“It’s delusional for a woman to want a man in his 30s to make it” – Solomon Buchi

• He expressed that it was delusional for women to want a 30-year-old man to be ridiculously rich
• He advised young girls with such expectations to open up their mind to getting married to their father’s age mate or men with illegal means. 

Relationship coach Solomon Buchi sparks a conversation with his assertion that expecting a man in his thirties to have achieved significant wealth is unrealistic.

He supported his claim with data, noting that the average millionaire is 57 years old, while the average billionaire reaches that status at 65.

Buchi argues that it’s an illusion to seek out a young man with substantial wealth. He challenges this expectation by asking if one’s own father, possibly over 60, has amassed such wealth.

He also critiques the impact of social media, suggesting that it has created an era where knowledge is widespread but often leads to a skewed perception of reality.

He advises those seeking a wealthy partner to consider someone closer to their father’s age or to be wary of younger men who may have acquired their wealth through questionable means.

He states:

“It’s delusional for a woman to want a wealthy 30-year-old man, who can afford exotic holidays, designer clothes, fancy cars and jewellery. In real life, you have to choose between a young ambitious man or a much older rich man. Research shows that 57 years is the average age of millionaires. For a billionaire, it’s 65 years. Little wonder older men and younger girls sugar daddy relationships are a booming industry.

It is a colossal delusion to want a young man who’s impressively rich. Your daddy is over 60, how rich is he? Even if he’s rich, at 30 how many designers could he afford?

Social media has democratized knowledge to an error of overexposure to distorted reality. If you want to marry a stupendously wealthy man, you either have to marry your father’s age mate(who probably isn’t commitment-driven), or a young man with illegal means.

In real life, you will marry an average hardworking man who is financially wise. With consistency and wise financial decisions, hitting his financial prime in his late thirties is guaranteed.

Some women are single because their spec is so out of touch with statistics and reality. Most men start hitting their biggest successes in their late 30s till early 50s.

You have the liberty to have your spec but have a reasonable spec. At your age, you should be seeking financial intelligence and ambition in a man, not riches.”