“If my man cheats on me, I will surely cheat back” – Tolanibaj

• Tolanibaj stated that if her man  decides to cheat on her, she would make sure she cheats back on him
• She stated that she recognizes having such mindset as toxic, but it is the one most suitable for her.

Reality TV star Tolanibaj has sparked a debate with her unapologetic approach to dealing with cheating in relationships.

During a recent episode of her podcast, “Bahd and Boujee“, which she co-hosts with actress Moet Abebe, Tolanibaj made it clear that she would retaliate if her partner cheats on her, regardless of her deep feelings for him.

Tolanibaj revealed that she doesn’t necessarily have to go through her man’s phone to find out, but would have to let him know her stance on infidelity.

While acknowledging that this mindset may be seen as toxic, Tolanibaj stated that it’s the approach that works best for her.

In her words:

“If you cheat on me, no matter how much i love you I will cheat on you back. I promise you. Maybe I will not go through your phone, but at the beginning I will let you know”.

“If you cheat on me, no matter how much I love you I will cheat on you back” –#BBNaija Tolanibaj pic.twitter.com/Eq9rnHBAJx

— Reality Tving (@RealityTving) May 22, 2024

In one of the episodes of her podcast, Tolanibaj revealed why she cant date a man like Lord Lamba .

Tolanibaj made it clear that she cannot date a man like skitmaker ,Lord Lamba.

Recall how Lord Lamba, after his controversy with his baby mama, Queen Mercy Atang, was recently called out and criticized on social media.

According to reports, Lord Lamba’s mother has never been fond of Queen and had doubts about the child’s paternity.

In a recent episode of ‘Bahd And Boujee Podcast‘, co-hosted by actress Moet Abebe, Tolanibaj stated that she can never date a mummy’s boy like Lord Lamba.

She questioned why Lord Lamba would contact his mother before making decisions.

In her words:

“I cannot date an only boy from Igbo family. It seems Lord Lamba is an Igbo man. I can’t date someone like him.”