- Nigerian singer, Temilade Openiyi popularly known as Tems reveals qualities sought in ideal partner: humor, emotional intelligence, spiritual maturity.
- The Grammy-winning singer expresses skepticism about men’s intentions, often perceives them as transparent and singular.
- He urges potential suitors to prove intentions through actions, not just words.
Famous Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has opened up on the qualities she seeks in a potential partner for a relationship.
During an interview on Korty EO’s YouTube show, the Grammy Award-winning singer and songwriter shared her insights into what she values most in a man.
According to the Grammy-winning singer, her top priorities in a relationship include humor, emotional intelligence, and spiritual maturity.
She revealed that these traits are non-negotiable for her when considering a romantic partner.
“You have to be emotionally intelligent, very funny, and spiritually adept. Just on that journey of your own,” Tems said.
Tems went on to express her skepticism about the intentions of many men she encounters. She mentioned that she often perceives their motives as transparent and singular, which makes it challenging for her to trust the authenticity of their words.
In her words;
“The thing is I know their intentions, most of the times they have one intention, as most guys do [Laughs]. They are very obvious, so how can I even trust this conversation we are having it’s not even real, everything you say is fake.
I have thing I am looking for, You have to be emotionally intelligent, very funny, and you have to be spiritually adept, inclined and mature. Just on that journey of your own. To boys that like me ‘show me’.”
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In other news, Popular Nigerian singer, Temilade Openiyi popularly known as Tems, has opened up on her views on love, revealing that she has never been in love before.
The 28-year-old singer shared her thoughts during a discussion on a recent episode of the Flow With Korty show.
Tems expressed her disagreement with the popular saying “love is blind.” According to her, love is not a feeling experienced blindly but rather a conscious choice made with full awareness.