- During a chat with Nelly, Topher lamented that Ben was competing with him for Anita’s attention.
- Topher also lamented about the issue to big brother during his diary session.
Big Brother Naija housemate Topher has shared his concerns about the dynamics between his girlfriend Anita, her best friend Ben, and himself.
In a conversation with Nelly, Topher expressed feeling overshadowed by Ben’s constant presence and involvement in Anita’s life.
Topher described feeling like he’s in a competition with Ben for Anita’s attention, citing instances where Ben would offer comfort or comments before he could.
He also shared his frustrations during his diary session, questioning Ben’s motives and wondering if he has romantic feelings for Anita.
Topher acknowledged that having a male best friend can be beneficial, but he struggles with feeling like Ben is inserting himself into his relationship with Anita.
“I haven’t been in this situation of girl and male best friend, if I even want to comfort Anita, before I get there, Ben is there, she did her nails, before I talk, Ben don talk say e fine,” he said.
“Being her male bestie is cool, but you trying to come in between what I have with Anita is what I don’t understand, I know you have your own person, is it that you like Anita and you don’t want any other guy to be with her?”
The two lovebirds Topher and Anita had earlier shared kiss to mark her birthday.
The couple, who have been showing affection towards each other, shared a romantic kiss to cap off the day.
Topher had been showering Anita with affectionate gestures throughout the day, which culminated in a midnight kiss.
Earlier, Topher had expressed his feelings towards Anita, describing her as his “safe space” and revealing that he hadn’t planned on falling in love in the house until he met her.
The other housemates also joined in to celebrate Anita’s birthday, with Biggie sending a special cake to mark the occasion