- Toyin Adegbola said it is unwise for women to leave their marriages because of cheating
- She urged women to endure their cheating husbands and buy condoms for them instead of walking out of their marriages.
Veteran Nollywood actress Toyin Adegbola has shared her thoughts on divorce and cheating in marriage.
During an Instagram Live session, Adegbola suggested that infidelity alone is not enough reason for divorce.
She cautioned women against leaving their marriages due to husbands’ problematic behavior.
Toyin Adegbola highlighted the perceived challenges divorcees face in remarriage, advising women to endure and find coping mechanisms.
Her recommendation included considering unconventional solutions, such as providing condoms to unfaithful husbands.
The actress said in yoruba:
“No matter how bad your husband is, don’t leave your matrimonial home because you won’t see a single man to marry you. Just be begging and buying condoms for him if he’s cheating.”
In another story, Rita Edochie advises couples to stop checking if their partner is cheating on them.
In a recent Instagram post, Rita Edochie encouraged her followers to shift their focus away from suspicion and towards nurturing their partner’s happiness.
She suggested that prioritizing a partner’s happiness can help build a strong and faithful relationship.
In her words:
“Stop checking if your partner is cheating on you; rather, check if your partner is happy. A happy partner cannot cheat unless your partner is naturally a dog.”
In reaction, many appreciated her perspective on fostering a positive relationship, However, some individuals acknowledged that the complexities of infidelity cannot be solely addressed by ensuring happiness.
@chioma_nwobi_ stated: “Mummy we are not in 1980! These days people happily cheat on their partners.”
@effedeborah insisted: “A happy partner can’t cheat ke? As a matter of fact, It is the happiness that will even drive them to go and cheat.”
@joyousbestedibles also added, “On this particular note, I would say women never blame yourself when your partner cheats. It has nothing to do with you making them happy or not. It’s definitely who he is. Whether happy or not. A cheat is a cheat whether happiness is involved or not.”