- Uti Nwachukwu stated that his friend had stopped talking to him for a while because he didn’t post her on her birthday
- He shared that after an extensive discussion, they both agreed that he would post about their situation and ask for public opinion.
Media personality Uti Nwachukwu has reflected on his experience with a friend who chose to distance themselves from him.
According to Uti, his friend had ceased communication for a period of time, prompting him to reach out for clarification about the situation.
He learned that the reason for the rift was linked to a birthday celebration; specifically, his friend felt overlooked due to the lack of a public post honoring their special day.
Uti found this reaction surprising, as he believed he had appropriately acknowledged his friend’s birthday through a direct message and a voice note in which he sang a birthday greeting.
His friend expressed dissatisfaction with the private nature of the celebration, feeling it required more public acknowledgment.
Following a comprehensive conversation, Uti and his friend agreed that he would share their experience publicly and invite feedback from others.
This request for public input resulted in a variety of responses online
SEE RESPONSES BELOW…
dannie_Is37 wrote, “It’s funny how y’all be acting like kids . If ur so called frnds don’t celebrate u publicly, u should do same when it gets to their turn. No hard feelings at all . U don’t even need ask the Frnd why. U just return the energy and life goes on .”
fortune_williams wrote, “Your friend is right. Love people how they want to be loved”
thefoodnetworknig2 wrote, “If they are active on social media and don’t celebrate you online…Dem don dey gossip you with other friends”
iamtoobig wrote, “Interesting times… Men once sought validation by going to war and achieving victories, but now they look for it through likes on their Instagram posts “
diamond_foray wrote, “Why won’t he be mad. If na me I will o. You go celebrate others publicly then come my own turn dey do am only pvtly. @siruti nna it is veryyyyy wronggg.”
bigbabynelly, “The people you put on your story do they have two heads or you want people to know that you celebrate them?”
saghana wrote, “Why would you celebrate acquaintances public and choose to do otherwise to your genuine friends except you are ashamed of the friendship”
suzoranno wrote, “The fact that you called and sent a voice note is more special. Is the person needing public validation of your friendship or do they value UOU as a friend?”
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