- In a lengthy note on Instagram, Iyabo Ojo noted how Verydarkman’s upbringing lacked love, care, and stability, hence his toxic narcīssistic behavior.
- She made him know that his anger and frustration are misplaced and it’s time he acknowledge the root cause.
Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has written a heartfelt note to social media activist VeryDarkMan, addressing his behavior and upbringing.
In a very lengthy note on Instagram, she expressed sadness and understanding of his character, stating that his lack of a nurturing environment and unstable upbringing have led to his toxic behavior.
Iyabo Ojo noted that Verydarkman’s parents failed to provide a stable and loving environment, resulting in unresolved anger and pain.
She encouraged him to acknowledge the root cause of his anger and frustration, rather than directing it towards others.
She also addressed Verydarkman’s mother, questioning her lack of initiative and dependence on her ex-husband.
Iyabo Ojo advised Verydarkman to seek healing and forgiveness in order to move forward.
In her words:
“Vincent, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of your behavior, and I must say, it’s quite sad. It seems like your upbringing lacked love, care, and stability. Hence, your toxic narcīssistic behavior, Your parents failed to provide you with a nurturing environment, leading to unresolved anger and pain.
Instead of directing your anger toward those responsible, you’ve chosen to lash out at successful womën and men. Your anger and frustration are misplaced, and it’s time to acknowledge the root cause.
Listening to your story, you had to fend for yourself at a very young age, which resorted to stealing potatoes and chickens to survive. You almost got lynched when you tried to steal a bicycle, so you said, w, ell. “That was traumatizing as a child, but why would your mother allow that to happen?
Since you’ve mentioned our names once again, I need to ask your mother why. Mama Vincent, your lack of initiative and dependence on ur ex-husband is concerning.
Were you not working at all b4 he ran away? Was your character flawed? Did you cheat, Did he want DNA? Why didn’t you make a continuous attempt to find out whose farm ur son stole potatoes or chickens from to feed, or were you also enjoying the benefits? Why would you have kids you couldn’t raise
Now, I wouldn’t have asked you because everyone has their stories, but your son needs to find healing!
Vincent, your mother, who failed to provide you with a stable and loving environment, left you for the streets; you knew your mother was the president, general among failed mothers. Still, you projected it on us; why? O wrong now 
Anyway, I get that your life experiences have shaped you into the BEAST you are today – manipulative, rude, Connie, deceitful, and toxic narcīssistic. Constantly tarnishing reputations to gain relevance. Your parents are to blame for it o, not Paulo and Mama Festus and Priscilla.
Your obsession with Iyabo Ojo is telling me that my name lives rent-free in your head o, I don’t have 100m to remove it from your head, so please, If it helps you breathe well at night, continue.
VDM, free your heart from hate by first forgiving your parents so that you can find peace”.
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